两位朋友,一些往事

今天在MSN跟大然聊,才知道原来瓶子这次回来广州,就是特意为了跟我约好的见面,我突然觉得很感动。熟悉我的朋友都知道,我是个随性的人,但承诺过的,都尽量兑现。我认为大然和瓶子也是这样的人。

很久以前的一场现场甲A,我们都在"diao"裁判,但唯独他俩只是尽情参与“捣乱”,但半句不“diao”,我那时候想,恩,这俩是有一点原则的人。

跟大然一起吃了三年午饭(很多时候瓶子也在,特别是煲仔菜时期),他是几个为数不多的比我更君子的真君子,我一直怀疑他是怎么把阿嫂骗到手的,作为伴郎,我有权知道事情真相,哈哈。

至于瓶子,我们是从一本薄薄的《C语言简明教程》熟起来的,那是务农,一个星期,上下床分着来看,回到学校,我们都入门了。跟瓶子是很奇怪的一种朋友关系,一种近在咫尺也可以神交的朋友。高中电脑课不能带游戏,我们自己做五子棋,瓶子做算法,我做UI;那时候都很喜欢XFILE,DISCOVERY和第一推动丛书;一起踢球;一起触网(十年前,当时我想上BBS,瓶子从163.com邮箱给我发了个NETTERM,.com属于国际邮件,学校收了我40大元。。。郁闷);一起写书;一起创业大赛;这几年,对于生活中的种种,我俩都喜欢归纳,喜欢推演——喜欢做工作(生活)小结。而且最近都是股神。娃哈哈~

俩都会来读我的space,还是低调点。

What it takes to be great—notes (zz)

From Val’s space, Thanks. http://zakxu.spaces.live.com/blog/cns!746D3A02D93DC7FE!420.entry

Specially agree on the 10-year rule and "practice makes perfect".

==================================

What it takes to be great—notes

Research now shows that the lack of natural talent is irrelevant to great success. The secret? Painful and demanding practice and hard work

Talent doesn’t mean intelligence, motivation or personality traits. It’s an innate ability to do some specific activity especially well. (Golf champ Tiger Woods never stopped trying to improve when he begin to play golf at 3 years old.)

No substitute for hard work

Reinforcing that no-free-lunch finding is vast evidence that even the most accomplished people need around ten years of hard work before becoming world-class, a pattern so well established researchers call it the ten-year rule.

Practice makes perfect

The best people in any field are those who devote the most hours to what the researchers call "deliberate practice." It’s activity that’s explicitly intended to improve performance, that reaches for objectives just beyond one’s level of competence, provides feedback on results and involves high levels of repetition.

The skeptics

Not all researchers are totally onboard with the myth-of-talent hypothesis, though their objections go to its edges rather than its center.

Real-world examples

Winston Churchill, one of the 20th century’s greatest orators, practiced his speeches compulsively. Vladimir Horowitz supposedly said, "If I don’t practice for a day, I know it. If I don’t practice for two days, my wife knows it. If I don’t practice for three days, the world knows it."

The business side

Many elements of business, in fact, are directly practicable. Presenting, negotiating, delivering evaluations, deciphering financial statements – you can practice them all.

Adopting a new mindset

You aren’t just doing the job, you’re explicitly trying to get better at it in the larger sense.

Feedback is crucial, do everything you can get the feedback.

Be the Ball

Through the whole process, one of your goals is to build what the researchers call "mental models of your business" – pictures of how the elements fit together and influence one another. The more you work on it, the larger your mental models will become and the better your performance will grow.

How much of a difference could breast feeding make?

http://psychcentral.com/blog/archives/2006/11/06/breastfeeding-your-child-is-it-better-for-their-mental-health/

The findings of this particular study indicate that those children breastfed for less then six months had a 52% likelihood of a mental health problem at as early as age two. In the sample, the risk was shown to increase to 61% at age eight and then decrease to 37% by the age of ten, in those children breastfed less then six months.

Mr.Pu

Hey man, neither the online store, nor the NikeTown in SF has your XL pro vent tight. So…you either gain or lose some weight, to get a XXXXXL or S. So…you don’t need to come to pick me up lah, but please do NOT forget you owe me one order of 神户牛肉 at 中森名菜,你看着办吧~~be a good man, do the wight fing~

完整了一把

昨天还在跟老妈吹,无论股市涨跌,我买的都一直在涨,不停的涨,没完没了的涨。。。今天晨早爬起身,入左只单日跌幅34%的股。。。原来唔使风流好耐,就可以好折堕的。

Job openings: Developer

我们公司在这4-6个星期之内招人,需要几个Developer,资历不限,按照经验背景决定薪水级别。要求不多:team player, development sense, willing to learn, better to have .Net experience. 不方便在这里透露公司名字,有兴趣email我(williamwry…at..hotmail.com)。公司在san francisco机场附近海边,English online education business. Top player in this market around the world. Would be IPO any time (I hope so…haha).

工作小结(3个月)

这个月感觉很漫长,可能是改冬令时,比前几个月都长,一个小时。

旧老板说走还是没有真走,在东岸通过电话保持联络;新老板说来一直还没来,后天才来。

由于好几个工程师都走了,我自动巩固了在公司核心技术人员的地位。不是说有多么了不起,我自己有多大一个头,戴顶什么帽子,别人不清楚,自己撒泡尿照照,心中也有个大概。只是这样一来,我就有更多的权力去按照我的意思去改革系统。邓爷爷说过,允许改革失败,不允许不改革。但从另一个角度说,我的责任就更大了。

#数据挖掘(data mining)
没有什么新奇的,在大四的时候学过,也见识过数据挖掘的威力。但真正接触到企业级的使用,还是在现在的公司。对销售和市场的帮助,甚至对产品设计都有莫大帮助。一直负责数据挖掘部分的同事,明天是last day,今天他向高层提议,至少要请半个工程师来继续管理负责这方面的工作,希望公司老大们能听得进去。接下来这段时间,我来负责。我会把它发扬光大的。

#Ajax和Javascript
这又是纯CompSci技术讨论。直到最近,Ajax才在业界风靡,风头一时赶过XML。但我今天顿悟,我们公司的整个网站,就是彻头彻尾的一个Ajax,比Ajax更Ajax。从八年前一开始设计,就是Ajax。严格来说,应该是Aj,那时候xml还不知道是什么咚咚。从纯理论的角度来说,其实已经不可能有更快速的服务器/客户端解决方案。现在唯一需要做的就是缩短开发周期和提高系统整合性,拓展性。但意味着要牺牲网站速度,我对这种牺牲的可行性严重保留。挑战我comfort zone的极限。我不知道我们的服务在中国速度如何,这次我回去要试一试,但根据大家的说法,其它的竞争对手并非望尘莫及,而是根本望不到尘。

#投资
在去年这个时候,关于投资,我写过这样一个帖子,觉得时间过的真快,但对于我的改变,一年的时间,实在是很短。但有一点没有变的是:diversify,分散投资。一部分放在5.05%年息的direct banking里(理论上完全没有风险),一部分在股市(高风险),一部分在中国买房子(中等风险),等累积到一个程度,会再分散到更多不同风险的地方。跟瓶子一样,我最近的财运也算不错,所买的股票不是说没有跌的,但综合起来年回报率超过200%(yeah,是200%),比起当初在加拿大存个GIC拿2%要强多了,至于F同学到08年的实际负增长的GIC,就不要生气啦,呵呵。我只是运气,只懂基本的投资知识。其实真正靠技术去在股市赚钱的,恕我直言,只有两个极端的:超长线投资(赌人类文明这块大饼)和day traders(比速度比心理比资金)。所以我不打算把这个年回报率打入我的心愿列表完成预算中,免得到时候股票亏了失落。

#心愿(们)
我有很多心愿,有实际的,也有不实际的,有自己的,也有不是自己的,有需要钱的,也有不需要钱的。这里只罗列一些需要钱的。
在亲朋好友帮助下实现了和实现中的有:老妈想买房子给她的老妈;老爸想有自己的画廊;我想参加两个好友(初高中各一个)的婚礼;
还没有实现但在努力实现的有:想让爸妈想回国就回国;想给老爸买大奔;想买Kayak,Yamaha R6,Boxster,帆船,房子,小飞机,大飞机,游艇。。。想有自己的IT公司,自己的彩弹射击场,自己的卡丁车场,自己的桌球场。

小数点

同事的女儿进GOOGLE了。第一次递交的简历,给GOOGLE打回头,说GPA精确到小数点后1位是远远不够的,起码要小数点后3位。我分特,我连自己GPA整数部分都不清楚~~~不知道A同学和J同学当时进GOOGLE,简历上面,GPA写了多少位,呵呵。