规矩可以告诉你谁对谁错和责任。。。但解决不了问题。。。有时候，用不合理的方式，却把问题解决了。实际的情况是，不论用什么办法，问题最后得到了圆满的解决，这就是生活。

每一个困难处境出现的同时其实都蕴藏着一个同等程度或者更大的机会。

成功绝非仅是靠拼命努力就能获得，它需要与专长结合起来，这至少让你少走弯路。错误的执着就是固执。你所爱好的并不一定是你所擅长的。。。有很多人要等到中年才能最终确定自己究竟要走哪条路。因为人到中年时，他们在职业方面已经累积了丰富的经验，一接手工作就能顺利地展开。

#无止境的追求卓越

#无条件的避免冲突：压抑感情，严重缺乏面对冲突，解决冲突的能力。

对于人脑内的天才按钮，专门研究颅脑科学的俄罗斯神经生理学家也有自己的看法，他们认为大脑内存在“转换开关”。莫斯科大脑研究所所长梅德韦杰夫进一步证实了米勒的结论，他认为，被称为“测错仪”的神经元是存在的，它是大脑内部的一种“预防机制”，具有某种压制天才的功能，不让人们的日常行为举止偏离常规。每当人们脑子里出现一个新想法时，“测错仪”就进入了“这不允许”的制约状态，使人们自己也觉得这种想法没多大意思，失去兴趣。但如果这个至于机制出了毛病，或者受到外来损害，那些非凡的念头和天才理论就会源源不断地涌现出来，这个人就成了天才，但也要冒很大的风险。

当面对挑战，不妨告诉自己，你就是最优秀最聪明的，那么结果肯定是另一种模样。

 ERD Commander 2003 allows you to access and repair otherwise unbootable
    systems in a familiar, Windows XP-like environment. ERD Commander 2003
      provides flexible diagnostic and troubleshooting tools to help you
  determine why a system will not boot and powerful repair tools to correct
                          a wide range of problems.
  For installation, ERD Commander 2003 requires a bootable CD-ROM drive and
                   one of the following operating systems:
                                – Windows NT 4
                                – Windows 2000
                                 – Windows XP
                            – Windows Server 2003
  A CD-R or CD-RW drive and software to make a bootable CD from an ISO image
                               are recommended.
  Once the ERD Commander 2003 windowing environment has started you may use
     the diagnostic and repair tools, accessible directly from the Start
  button, to troubleshoot and repair the dead system or to move files to or
   from the system. The following built-in utilities are specially designed
                     for the pre-boot repair environment:
                                 FileRestore
                          Locksmith password utility
                               Registry Editor
                            System Restore Wizard
                                Command Prompt
                          Service and Driver Manager
                                System Compare
                                   Notepad
                                   Explorer
                           Disk Management Utility
                                 File Sharing
                                 File Search
                               Event Log Viewer
                              System Information
                                   RegSVr32
                                    CHKDSK
                             TCP/IP Configuration

孙子兵法里面提到：
凡军之所欲击，城之所欲攻，人之所欲杀，必先知其守将，左右，偈者，门者，舍人之姓名。

[非常有道理，得认真读读孙子兵法。]