天下母亲快乐

上周末就解决了那些例行公事的母亲节dinner,按照我家的一项传统,很少在正日庆祝公众节日,理由是免得一窝蜂跟大家挤。。。貌似很脱俗,其实源于很久以前经济不好,而逢年过节东西都会爆贵,老一辈节省惯了,现在虽然温饱不是问题,但习惯还是不改。

anyways,祝天下母亲快乐!

Do it now summary

zz’ed from Val’s space, thanks!

 

How to get graduated in only three semesters, taking the same classes that people would normally take over a four-year period?

Clarity is key

Ÿ The first step is to know exactly what you want. Your goals must be so clear that it would be possible for a stranger to look at your situation objectively and give you an absolute "yes" or "no" response as to whether you’ve accomplished each goal or not.

Ÿ The key period I’ve found useful for defining and working on specific goals is ninety days, or the length of one season.

Ÿ If you aren’t yet at the point of clarity, then make that your first goal. It’s a big waste of time to go through life being unclear about what you want.

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Be flexible

Ÿ There’s a key difference between knowing your destination and knowing the path you will take to get there. You cannot know the exact path to your goal in advance. I believe that the real purpose of planning is simply so that you remain convinced that a possible path exists. Sometimes you can reach your goals faster by taking advantage of shortcuts that arise unexpectedly. Other times you should stick to your original plans and avoid minor distractions that would take you further from your goals. Be tight on your goals but flexible on your plans.

Ÿ I believe that having a clear goal is far more important than having a clear plan.

Use single handling

Ÿ If I had a 10-hour term paper to write, I would do the whole thing at once instead of breaking it into smaller tasks. Once I began an assignment, I would stay with it until it was 100% complete and ready to be turned in.

Ÿ This simple practice saved me a significant amount of time. First, it allowed me to concentrate deeply on each assignment and to work very efficiently while I worked. Secondly, I believe this habit helped me remain relaxed and unstressed because my mind wasn’t cluttered with so many to-do items. It was always just one thing at a time. I could forget about anything that was outside the current context.

Failure is your friend

Ÿ Most people seem to have an innate fear of failure, but failure is really your best friend. People who succeed also fail a great deal because they make a lot of attempts.

Ÿ Understand that failure is not the opposite of success. Failure is an essential part of success. Once you succeed, no one will remember your failures anyway.

Ÿ If the word "failure" is anathema to you, then reframe it: You either succeed, or you have a learning experience.

Ÿ Letting go of the fear of failure will serve you well. If you’re excited about achieving a particular goal, but you’re afraid you might not be able to pull it off, jump on it and do it anyway. Even if you fail in your attempt, you’ll learn something valuable and can make a better attempt next time.

Do it now

Ÿ Thinking and planning are important, but action is far more important. You don’t get paid for your thoughts and plans — you only get paid for your results. When in doubt, act boldly, as if it were impossible to fail. In essence, it is.

Ÿ It is absolutely imperative that you develop the habit of making decisions as soon as possible. I use a 60-second rule for almost every decision I have to make, no matter how big or important. Once I have all the data to make a decision, I start a timer and give myself only 60 seconds to make a firm decision.

Ÿ Too often people delay making decisions when there is no advantage to be found in that delay. Usually delaying a decision will only have negative consequences, so even if you’re faced with ambiguity, just bite the bullet and make a decision.

Ÿ Don’t spend more than 60 seconds in that state if you can avoid it. Make a firm, immediate decision, and move from uncertainty to certainty to action. Let the world tell you when you’re wrong, and you’ll soon build enough experience to make accurate, intelligent decisions.

Triage ruthlessly

Ÿ Get rid of everything that wastes your time. Use the trash can liberally. Apply the rule, "When in doubt, throw it out."

Ÿ Ask yourself this question: "Would I have ever gotten started with this project, relationship, career, etc. if I had to do it all over again, knowing what I now know?" If your answer is no, then get out as soon as possible. This is called zero-based thinking.

Identify and recover wasted time

Ÿ Don’t spend a half hour typing a lengthy email when you could accomplish the same thing with a 10-minute phone call. Batch your errands together and do them all at once.

Ÿ Clarity of purpose must come first.

Apply the 80-20 rule

Ÿ Also known as the Pareto Principle, the 80-20 rule states that 20% of a task’s effort accounts for 80% of the value of that task. This also means that 80% of a task only yields 20% of the value of that task.

Guard thy time

Ÿ To work effectively you need uninterrupted blocks of time in which you can complete meaningful work.

Ÿ You may need to negotiate with the other people in your life to create these uninterrupted blocks of time.

Work all the time you work

Ÿ During one of these sacred time blocks, do nothing but the activity that’s right in front of you.

Ÿ Decide what it is you should be doing, and then do nothing but that.

Ÿ If you need a break, then take a real break and do nothing else. Don’t semi-work during a break if you feel you need rest and restoration.

Multitask

Ÿ The amount of new knowledge in certain fields is increasing so rapidly that everything you know about your line of work is probably becoming obsolete. The only solution is to keep absorbing new knowledge as rapidly as possible. Many of the skills I use in my business today didn’t even exist five years ago. The best way I know to keep up is to multitask whenever possible by reading and listening to audio programs.

Ÿ One of the best ways to save time is to learn directly from people who already have the skills you want to master.

Ÿ Take real breaks when you need them, but don’t waste time in a state of partial effort. It’s more efficient to cycle between working flat out and then resting completely.

Experiment

Ÿ Everyone is different, so what works for you may well be different than what works for everyone else. You may work best in the morning or late at night. Take advantage of your own strengths, and find ways to compensate for your weaknesses.

Cultivate your enthusiasm

Ÿ The word "enthusiasm" comes from the Greek entheos, which means literally, "the god within." I really like that definition.

Ÿ If your enthusiasm level is high, you can work so much more productively and even enjoy the normally tedious parts of your work. I’ve always found that whenever I want to take my business to a new level, I must take my thoughts to a new level first.

Eat and exercise for optimal energy

Maintain balance

Ÿ I don’t think it’s easy to sustain long-term productivity, health, and happiness if your life is totally unbalanced.

Ÿ I believe the main goal of time management is to give you the power to make your life as juicy as you want it to be.

Ÿ By getting clear about what you want and then developing a collection of habits that allow you to efficiently achieve your goals, you’ll enjoy a much richer, more fulfilling life than you would otherwise.

公款吃喝是不好的~

今天我罕有的拉了几个同事出去公款吃喝,结果吃完了出来,车子启动不了~~~打电话回公司求救,那个同事还没开车出来接我们回办公室,已经把消息传出去了,等我回到办公室,公司上下一百几十人都知道我的车打不着火了,大家都很关心的问:新车都打不着火阿?当我说是我的老福特,他们都很没意思的散去了,明显8挂没8出什么新闻,很不过瘾~

母亲节快到了,为了不跟大家争桌子,上个周末就拉了母亲大人和父亲的母亲大人一起出来吃饭,母亲节快乐!!!

管理处给我家更换了节能灯若干,现在照得更光亮了,电费也省了,还更环保。一颗石头打死三只鸟啊~~

这两天很开心~~~ ^0^^0^

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SilverLight
MS的新东西,web弄得像winapp那样,跟flash注定是一场硬仗,我现在对MS阵营恢复一点信心。

ABC Deletes Posts Criticizing Them For Deleting posts
死循环阿~~哈哈

Worst. Test Question. Ever.
明显误人子弟

Nothing’s Wrong With This Picture….. (it’s just your dirty mind)
娃哈哈~

Guy Catches Sunglasses With His Face
很酷。。。有特效吗?不知道~

Shrimp on a Treadmill – Breathtaking
好无聊啊~~那个背景音乐!

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Crow Adopts Cat, feeds it, keeps it off the road.
看来猫捉鸟并不是pre-wired的

What we are
笑笑算了

The BEST Homemade Rube Goldberg Machine I’ve Ever Seen
这个疯狂。闹钟是不是要提前个几分钟,才不会迟到。

Amazing Octopus Squeezes Entire Body through Once Inch Hole
缩骨功。

How Cocaine Is Made
或者这是最好的反毒品宣传片子。看完了你还想吃。。。

873 people evactuate a plane in 77 seconds
当时A380有一个很重要需要通过的测试就是,90秒钟这个撤离时间极限。

Giraffe + Quicksand
看看身边的人在第几阶段。

Glass Illusion
大家看得出秘诀吗?

恭喜中国发现油田

太好了,天时地利人和阿,中国好好发展!强国是硬道理。

今天股市收市,查了一下,发现PQ狂涨了9%,正在纳闷发生什么事了,查了一下,哦,原来PQ是石油股。一般情况下,如果不是狂涨或者暴跌,我根本不会知道我自己买了什么股~~~浮云阿。

偶的新名片印出来了,想想这个lead也是做得糊里糊涂,整个team都是强人,反而是我年纪最小,要虚心请教,夹着尾巴做人。

team里印度人多起来,他们之间开始讲印度语言了,看来我又要多学一门外语拉~~~万一他们在我背后说我好话,我还不知道,那多郁闷啊!

Speed Reading and Speed Listening


Speed Reading and Speed Listening

总结得不错的一篇文章。再次强调一下,快速阅读不是为了快而快,如果真正掌握,结果只是在更短的时间内获得更好的理解。另外,如文中所说的,不需要什么文章都用快速阅读。当你可快可慢,这就变成一种自由,又让我想起跑车理论,我开跑车,并不是想超你车,而是想什么时候超你车就什么时候超你车。^0^ 

经过一段时间的训练,我觉得我对英语单词的熟悉程度,还不足以使用真正的快速阅读,但至少坚持文中一点“Keep moving your eyes no matter what!”,还是提速不少。至于中文,没有足够的机会去练习,最近开始增加中文阅读量。坚持正确的方向,保持练习,再过一两年,目标是中文达到快速阅读,英文入门级快速阅读。(文中说的,看完一本达文西密码要8个小时,那是很慢的快速阅读了)

至于快速听力,暂时没有太大必要。现在只要有机会开老爸的新车上班,我都会听audio book,塞塞垃圾时间,当然心情特别好或者特别不好,还是会听歌的。

我现在想知道的是,有没有快速写作?!(只要大概能跟上我的思维,就满足了)